the “aww” moment of the day

snowy day, part two

I spent the morning and part of the afternoon digging out my little cruiser, dressed in Frank’s coat and completely inadequate gloves (having cleverly lost my big wooly mittens on an errand run last week), a feat of which I was justly proud until I made the mistake of turning around and attempting to park in the tracks left by one of my tenant’s SUVs. Stuck fast I was, and this time for good. Spent most of the afternoon digging as if I were at the gym and counting calories burned,  trying in vain to get the car to stop slewing west every time I rocked back, and only finally got it to the road in the pitch dark after my other tenant (Jose) came home (yay!) with a tow chain. The three of us trundled out in the big SUV down to the train station where Jose’s car was buried under four feet of snow and after digging for what seemed liked a few minutes (though I suspect it was longer) got it uncovered enough to tow out in just two tries — a masterful job. We then drove home and did NOT celebrate with mulled cider, since the two big hulking guys had to go to bed immediately. I could have duuuug all night… well that doesn’t make for a good song but I had a good time. I’m celebrating with one of my cranberry scones slathered in bourbon jam. The dogs don’t think much of it, but then, they don’t know anything about bourbon jam. Or tow chains. Though they do know their way around the subject of digging. Hmmm. There was my first mistake!

even though no one reads this blog:

snow day, the first without Frank…

 I got all suited up, put on Frank’s winter coat so I could feel close to him since he had done the digging so many times in our years together, put a smile on my face and coerced WookieRosie to come out with me. We dug our way out of the sliders (the snow two feet high) to the dog yard gate where I reached over the fence with the shovel to move away enough snow to open it (fortunately it was just drifted, and not packed down), squeezed through and cleared a path from the dog door to the yard so The Littles could finally get out of the house and take care of business.  WookieR. thought it was all a great lark, leaping up to catch the shovel drifts in the air — made me happy all the way through.The snow had been piled high above the top of the pet door so the only way out for them would have been to tunnel, which clearly none of them were inclined to attempt.
Once I persuaded The Littles it was indeed possible to leave the house, I took off for the front of the house. WookieRosie  again kept me company on my slog down the long walk to the end of the driveway to unmask the car, bravely forging a path ahead of us so the trudging was easy for me, looking back over her shoulder from time to time to make sure I was still in tow. Whatta dog! I saved the drifts in front of the car for after lunch: the thick vegetable curry soup and sourdough  I’d made yesterday for me, and hot home-made chicken and veggies for the dogs.
     Frank’s coat is drying by the woodstove where the logs I’ve been  collecting and piling up all fall sit in silent testimony to his passing, and to how very much about joy and work I managed to learn from him. WookieRosie is asleep, curled up on her special bed and twitching, likely dreaming of more snow.

for lack of anything more original…

…  adapted from a letter to some friends on the subject of what to do on a date, plus some of the usual NOT-to-be-taken-seriously ramblings:

 

my vote goes to dinner, but without a movie. If you go to dinner first you always have to have your eye on the clock to make the movie in time, and then you sit in silence for however many hours and then go home. A nice long dinner with a really good wine and some really good conversation (when in doubt, ask questions about her life, her likes and dislikes, her friends, favorite books, films, art, her opinions)……. well, you get my drift.
If I go to a movie with someone, I like to go see it first, then there’s lots to talk about over dinner after, but that usually means getting off work early to go to a matinee for people with regular jobs, right? Or else dinner gets to be really late.
Just some thoughts, now that I’m in the dating scene again (ugh).
   Last night I wrote to a few women I found on the dating site, but haven’t heard back yet, and haven’t had the courage to contact that young woman I found attractive, the one I met at the dinner with my lesbian friends. Or maybe I think she’s just too young. Really don’t know at this point — suspect am still not really ready for a real relationship with anyone but my dogs and friends.
       I might, on the other hand, be getting ready to either face a new chapter in my life (perhaps moving to Africa?)or die, whichever comes first. Have started reading my old journals saved from high school and letters and photographs from family and lovers from a thousand years ago that have been collecting dust up in the top of my closet. I always promised myself I would not die until I got rid of the really embarrassing stuff. Oddly, most of it no longer embarrasses me. (The reallt stupid stuff I’ve begun burning, and happily). The woodstoves are my friends now, in several ways.
Am beginning to understand why people move to warm places when they get old. This winter, the arthritis in my hands, neck, and ankles that began a few years ago as a mild annoyance has blossomed into a royal pain. Working in my very cold loft studio (not the warm pottery one downstairs), has become a challenge. Working out at the gym , however, helps a lot, as do the Warm Whiskers critters (pampered pets ) I put in the microwave and wrap around my aches, but advil and the Glucosamine, MSM, Chondoitin stuff works best.  Off to get some Glucosamine brew and restock the firewood piles.
Hope all is well with everyone.

amazing little guy!

priceless!

this is very cool!

too funny :)

amazing link…

some fabulous photographs from our past:

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